one less 'to do'
*sigh of relief*
I FINALLY did Reb's jewellery... or at least some of it. I can't be bothered doing any more - I did what I could, the rest is a little hard... she'll have to live with it - and considering that I'm not going to ask her for any money... I hope she doesn't complain too much.
The story you ask?
well...
about 2 years ago (maybe more) a friend of mine asked me to fix some jewellery for her. She's one of those pushy type friends who it's hard to say no to, so I agreed. Fast forward to about 2 months ago (adding in the bit where everytime she saw me she would remind me/make me feel guilty about it) and she started calling with peeved tones asking for it back, even if it wasn't finished etc etc. I was about to just give it all back (I've had a slight falling out with her since all of this - she's one of the party's involved with the whole Dan-Breakup thing, and she's also done other things to really piss me and some other friends off) but I had a fit of guilt at the last minuite and asked if she could give me another two weeks. "Two weeks?" she asked? "Yes! Two weeks is all I will need!"
ha.
Now it's two months later and she's started calling me again (quite rightly so) and after putting her off and putting her off - I've FINALLY gone and done the bloody stuff, to give back to her on Wednesday...
*another sigh of relief*
It's so great when you get to tick one of those fuckers that's been around the back of your head for ages...
Now, I could write about my sexy weekend, but, really, I suppose it's all getting a bit samey talking about who I fucked and how 'it was awesome' all the time, so I won't.
I was also going to do a big rant about Si and how much of a dick he is, and how I'm not going to see him any more - and I will be friends with him, but I need a bit of a cooling off period, but I think that might end up being a bit boring as well.
Sufficed to say, he got drunk and wanted to hang out - embarrased me in front of alot of friends by heckling them on stage and generally being a dick, told me I was a bitch when I tried to wake him up after the gig was over (he fell asleep...) and shoved me in the chest a few times when I tried to get him outside to the taxi.
Calling me a bitch is bad enough - but no one, and I mean NO ONE shoves me and gets to be with me.
So I took him home (I wanted to make sure he was ok - even tho Gun's advice was to leave him asleep at the pub) but told him to sleep on the couch. He got very upset, and I said we weren't going to see each other any more, and he got even more upset - and angry.
"I could have slept at 3 other girls houses tonight"
fine, go there then
"I can't believe you're doing this to me"
I'm not doing it, you are
"I've been getting texts from a girl at work all night"
I've been fucking other people, text all you want.
He said he knew I was probably sleeping with other people, and that it had hurt him, even though he knew what the arrangement was. He basically admitted to having serious feelings about me, and said that he's fucked up one of the best things in his life.
I wanted to tell him that he never really had me because I didn't want anything serious with him, but I didn't.
Sometimes I thought I could be with him, but most of the time I knew he wasn't really for me.
I feel a little bad about doing this whole thing with him when I didn't want anything serious, but then I think that he's a grown-up too, and I talked about our relationship heaps, and gave him numerous opportunities to voice how he felt, and he lied about it... so I tend to expect him to take responsibility for taking care of himself and his feelings.
I'm nothing if not upfront with the guys that I see. If I thought there could be something between me and one of them I would act differently, but as it is, I tell them and have the conversation pre-sex about what I'm doing with my life and my intentions and what the go is.
This probably sounds heartless.... but what more can I do? I'm not going to stop seeing someone just because I think there's a chance they're not being honest with me... it's up to them to define their own lines...
that's pretty heartless....
oh dear...
I FINALLY did Reb's jewellery... or at least some of it. I can't be bothered doing any more - I did what I could, the rest is a little hard... she'll have to live with it - and considering that I'm not going to ask her for any money... I hope she doesn't complain too much.
The story you ask?
well...
about 2 years ago (maybe more) a friend of mine asked me to fix some jewellery for her. She's one of those pushy type friends who it's hard to say no to, so I agreed. Fast forward to about 2 months ago (adding in the bit where everytime she saw me she would remind me/make me feel guilty about it) and she started calling with peeved tones asking for it back, even if it wasn't finished etc etc. I was about to just give it all back (I've had a slight falling out with her since all of this - she's one of the party's involved with the whole Dan-Breakup thing, and she's also done other things to really piss me and some other friends off) but I had a fit of guilt at the last minuite and asked if she could give me another two weeks. "Two weeks?" she asked? "Yes! Two weeks is all I will need!"
ha.
Now it's two months later and she's started calling me again (quite rightly so) and after putting her off and putting her off - I've FINALLY gone and done the bloody stuff, to give back to her on Wednesday...
*another sigh of relief*
It's so great when you get to tick one of those fuckers that's been around the back of your head for ages...
Now, I could write about my sexy weekend, but, really, I suppose it's all getting a bit samey talking about who I fucked and how 'it was awesome' all the time, so I won't.
I was also going to do a big rant about Si and how much of a dick he is, and how I'm not going to see him any more - and I will be friends with him, but I need a bit of a cooling off period, but I think that might end up being a bit boring as well.
Sufficed to say, he got drunk and wanted to hang out - embarrased me in front of alot of friends by heckling them on stage and generally being a dick, told me I was a bitch when I tried to wake him up after the gig was over (he fell asleep...) and shoved me in the chest a few times when I tried to get him outside to the taxi.
Calling me a bitch is bad enough - but no one, and I mean NO ONE shoves me and gets to be with me.
So I took him home (I wanted to make sure he was ok - even tho Gun's advice was to leave him asleep at the pub) but told him to sleep on the couch. He got very upset, and I said we weren't going to see each other any more, and he got even more upset - and angry.
"I could have slept at 3 other girls houses tonight"
fine, go there then
"I can't believe you're doing this to me"
I'm not doing it, you are
"I've been getting texts from a girl at work all night"
I've been fucking other people, text all you want.
He said he knew I was probably sleeping with other people, and that it had hurt him, even though he knew what the arrangement was. He basically admitted to having serious feelings about me, and said that he's fucked up one of the best things in his life.
I wanted to tell him that he never really had me because I didn't want anything serious with him, but I didn't.
Sometimes I thought I could be with him, but most of the time I knew he wasn't really for me.
I feel a little bad about doing this whole thing with him when I didn't want anything serious, but then I think that he's a grown-up too, and I talked about our relationship heaps, and gave him numerous opportunities to voice how he felt, and he lied about it... so I tend to expect him to take responsibility for taking care of himself and his feelings.
I'm nothing if not upfront with the guys that I see. If I thought there could be something between me and one of them I would act differently, but as it is, I tell them and have the conversation pre-sex about what I'm doing with my life and my intentions and what the go is.
This probably sounds heartless.... but what more can I do? I'm not going to stop seeing someone just because I think there's a chance they're not being honest with me... it's up to them to define their own lines...
that's pretty heartless....
oh dear...
posted by ekstasis at 6:25 PM
4 Comments:
You're not heartless. He's a dick. Nuff said ;)
Oh wow, the jewelry thing with your friend sounds like me with the books I borrow from friends...I always forget to take them back with me to their places when I visit, I don't mean it, it just happens...so I mnade a list, went through my bookshelf and returned all the books a few months back. It was a great way to spend the week/weekend..catching up with people I hadn't seen in ages (coz I had their books!!) and a chance to tick the list off as you said.
I have to say though, I am missing some books of my own here!!!
Ditch the dude..don't put up with his shit pushing ya around...tell him to take a hike!
I did, oh I did!!!
he actually had the nerve to ask me to get him drugs yesterday... I asked him why and how he felt able to ask me for favours after what he had done to me last week... no apology or anything said about it at all:
"oh it's all good"
was the reply....
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